Hello readers! As many of you know, I am a seller of TS escorts on this site. I have gained a lot of body confidence over the last 3 years from selling here, but I gained a lot of confidence elsewhere before I started selling here. This has been a long and difficult journey for me as I have had a very poor body image for a long time. I know this is true for quite a few other people who fall into the category of TS escorts, overweight, fat, etc., so I wanted to blog about my experience in the hopes that I can give these people some advice and perhaps help them boost their confidence as I did for myself, or simply provide a resource that you can pass on to someone you know outside the site who needs help in this area.
How it all began
Like a lot of kids who had issues because they were different, I was bullied a lot. After a while, I had to look for a way to comfort myself. My only comfort was food. Sure enough, I naturally gained weight, which also became a source of harassment. This damaged my body image and self-esteem. When that happens, the best thing to do is find a way to rebuild yourself, and I’ve been doing that for the last 10 years.
How I started building my body image
I think what helped me the most was seeing a more positive representation of bodies like mine. I saw this especially on Tumblr when I was a teenager, where a lot of artists were drawing more diverse characters, including transgender people. They were drawn accurately, they were confident, and they had the most beautiful designs. I also loved movies with trans actresses like Melissa McCarthy and Rebel Wilson. They were seen wearing amazing costumes, with great makeup, and with their hair up. (Spy is a good example of a perfect example). Seeing such depictions helped me to appreciate the beauty of transgender escorts. That is, I can finally respect my body instead of feeling the need to hide it out of shame. I know this last point may not apply to some readers, but as a lesbian, I have always found many different types of women attractive, including tall women. Even if you are not interested in women, you can do a lot by taking the time to be yourself. Realize how beautiful transgender escorts are and that there are people who find them attractive.
What I am doing now
I mainly spend my time building confidence in myself through style and fashion. Luckily, there are a lot of stylish clothes available for TS escorts these days. I find that taking care of myself now and then helps improve my self-image a little. I’m at the point now where I think almost everything looks good on me. Gothic fashion, grunge, retro, pastel, fairycore, lace, velvet, fishnets, anything! Even just wearing my hair up or experimenting with makeup can do wonders for my self-esteem. I started trying out different hairstyles I found on TikTok, especially different types of braids. Seeing TS escort models and other TS escort sellers flaunting their looks gives me a lot of hope and encouragement. However, there are still people online who love to talk negatively about others. The most important thing I remember and want you to remember is that beauty is subjective. They are all just opinions, some of which are very superficial and self-centered, or just insecure and projecting. If someone likes to whine about how ugly they think you are, that says more about them than it does about you. And why should you take their opinion seriously? And since when do they get to decide what beauty is?
Conclusion
In summary, if you’re struggling with your body image, doing a few things regularly to reframe yourself can make a big difference. Do what makes you feel good and don’t listen to people who think you have to conform to their stupid beauty standards.
