Casual sex is a social phenomenon that seems to be becoming more and more common these days. Whatever the reason, the fact that we tend to be ignored by our lovers, friends, and clients is a harsh reality that many of us face.
What is CASUAL SEX?
Casual sex is a way of cutting all ties with a person without giving any prior indication of your intentions. Casual sex means suddenly disappearing from someone’s life forever, without warning.
The term sounds familiar.
Yes, casual sex is a real thing, and it seems to happen to the best of us. It’s as if common sense and social norms have left the building and left in its place a new norm: leaving a conversation/relationship out of the blue without warning or a sense of closure.
How often have you had to talk to a client for days, answering all their questions, listing all the details of the meeting, talking about what they want you to bring and what you want to do for them? Only to disappear without a word, leaving you feeling like you’ve wasted your time and energy for nothing?
In this situation, the best thing to do is recognize the signs and mentally prepare yourself when someone tries to ghost you!
Signs he’s having casual sex with you:
He suddenly switches from long messages to one-word texts. This is a warning sign that he is going to ghost you.
If he cancels at the last minute, don’t make the mistake of booking him. Again, next time, he could do the same thing and be a time waster who only agrees to talk to you, dance to the sound of your voice, or is a collector collecting sexy nude photos for his private collection.
If he makes plans with you for future dates without seeing you once, then this red flag indicates that he is fantasizing about you when the actual date is supposed to be. Many people find pleasure in just talking to someone who is having casual sex and watching—the details of a meeting without the courage to implement their plans.
If your gut tells you something is wrong with the guy you contacted for a session, always listen to your intuition and go for it. Chances are your intuition is correct, and you waste your time talking to a guy who will ignore you.
Casual sex is a reality and something that happens all around us. What you can do is spot the signs that come up when you are talking to a prospect or even a regular customer because the sooner you understand what they are up to, the sooner you can back off and move on to talking to someone who will eventually book you.
